14:00:12 From Sabrina : hi 14:00:41 From Michelle : Hello, 14:01:18 From Michelle : Will any slides be available 14:04:40 From Regina (PLAN): Only through the recording; it's not a separate file. 14:05:17 From Maria : hand movements 14:05:21 From Ronald : posture 14:05:26 From Susan : body language 14:05:33 From Ronald : that you agree 14:05:34 From Peggy : Facial expressions 14:07:00 From Regina (PLAN): Handout: https://www.plan.lib.fl.us/handouts/20210126bruno.pdf 14:08:15 From Susanna : I'm not....enough 14:08:17 From Josiane : my opinion doesn't matter 14:08:17 From Maria : Really???? 14:08:19 From Susan : things could always be worse 14:08:22 From Janet : +Things could be worse. 14:08:25 From Evelyn : Things could always be worse 14:08:46 From Sabrina : my opinion doesn't matter 14:08:54 From Deborah : My opinion doesn't matter 14:09:08 From Ronald : I knew that would happen 14:09:12 From Ronald : If only... 14:11:45 From Ronald : self-fulfilling 14:15:02 From Deborah : im not a crook 14:22:29 From Maria : doubt 14:22:30 From Ronald : worthiness 14:22:32 From Deborah : defeated 14:22:40 From Peggy : depression 14:22:43 From Cheryl : ill-equipped 14:22:53 From Ronald : stuck 14:22:56 From Michelle : Mistrust 14:22:57 From Shirles: low self esteem 14:23:13 From Michelle : Yes absolutely 14:23:54 From Michelle : It's draining 14:24:40 From Deborah : "Your mind is a frightening place. Don't go there alone." 14:24:48 From Michelle : love that 14:24:54 From Deborah : I don['t remember who said it. 14:25:13 From Peggy : Vent and share feelings 14:25:33 From Peggy : good point! 14:25:51 From Michelle : Surround yourself with Positive People and uplifting daily quotes / inspirational speehces 14:26:16 From Regina (PLAN): Yep, they do! :-) 14:26:57 From Maria : Shola Richardson is amazing. 14:27:57 From Kenneth : Difficult when its your spouse 14:28:12 From Kenneth : she has poor health 14:28:33 From Michelle : I just put up a quote on my children's wall "Start Each Day with a Grateful Heart" 14:29:43 From Kenneth : I am a fixer. Your right on the spot 14:30:18 From Cheryl : it is hard for me because I easily fall back into a negative pattern 14:30:36 From Michelle : I have been there with a spouse that was condescending as well so can relate 14:31:13 From Michelle : Counseling helped us and changed our lives for the better. 14:31:37 From Michelle : The hard thing was asking for help 14:32:05 From Cheryl : i have a negative sense of humor that is funny yet the truth! 14:32:20 From Michelle : exactly 14:32:37 From Cheryl : yes, i resemble that 14:32:56 From Maria : stress 14:32:57 From Ronald : people don't want to be in company 14:32:59 From Cheryl : isolation 14:33:01 From Susanna : relationship issues 14:33:18 From Michelle : Health issues high blood pressure, sugar levels 14:33:35 From Ronald : if you have children, then you create another bad you 14:34:13 From Michelle : using the bad language can become habitual as well hard to break the cycle 14:34:54 From Michelle : yes!!! 14:35:30 From Michelle : So true 14:35:35 From Cheryl : I am tired of being stuck 14:35:49 From Kenneth : Also, Be effective, not affected 14:36:40 From Ronald : clutter 14:36:47 From Deborah : take a break 14:36:48 From Cheryl : we have a lot to deal with 14:37:16 From Ronald : take the street 14:37:28 From Michelle : Take time to breathe and reboot 14:37:31 From Kenneth : Find another route? 14:38:59 From Ronald : good for you 14:48:14 From Cheryl : I say that all of the time. It just rolls off my tongue. 14:48:24 From Cheryl : no 14:50:53 From Ronald : I welcome this challenge 14:54:27 From Regina (PLAN): Go to bed earlier. 14:54:29 From Cheryl : take a step back 14:54:30 From Sabrina : more rest 14:54:40 From Ronald : Smile at myself in the mirror and love the gray 14:54:43 From Michelle : more rest 14:54:49 From Maria : don't skip exercise to finish work I brought home 14:55:06 From Susie : sleep at least 8 hours everyday 14:55:35 From Cheryl : don't be quick to judge 14:55:38 From Peggy : I should exercise more. I have tried several times but I keep stopping 14:56:15 From Terri : Make sure I've given myself enough time to think my own thoughts for myself, process! 14:56:20 From Janet : get outside and enjoy 14:56:39 From Cheryl : enjoy the weather we are now having in south florida 14:57:04 From Cheryl : yes! lol 14:57:10 From Michelle : I love long walks and riding bicycle outside on trails 14:58:16 From Cheryl : i like the re-framing idea 14:58:46 From Cheryl : are you going to send us the recording of this? I missed the first part of it. 14:59:16 From Regina (PLAN): @Cheryl: Yes, you'll get a link to the recording. Yes, it's on the PLAN website under Webinar Recordings. 14:59:21 From Regina (PLAN): Or will be... :-) 14:59:36 From Cheryl : i am going to stop before i start the negative self-talk 15:00:07 From Maria : Instead of saying One day I will, say today is Day One. 15:00:27 From Cheryl : Not today! 15:00:51 From Susie : Thank you! 15:00:53 From Cheryl : Thank you!